Grave Lights

The pain associated with losing a loved one is truly unimaginable. While we may be fortunate to have and hold the memories that we created with them, the selfish parts of our selves often cannot see that, especially shortly after the initial blow of the loss. This is more than understandable, as we become accustomed to our lives being a certain way, and including certain individuals. When that is changed drastically, such as through the loss of a loved one, everything that they stood for in our lives is altered as well. The things that were enjoyed with the friend or family member are suddenly painful reminders, and it can seem that everywhere we turn there are small remembrances that bring back the pain of the loss. There are many feelings associated with grief, but the one that is often hard to obtain is comfort. It can certainly be difficult to try to find the things that we should be grateful for during such trying times, but often, that can be the greatest remedy, eve if only momentarily. Everyone grieves differently, of course, but many families who have opted to create a memorial tribute to their dearly departed find that visiting the site, and bring small tributes can bring a small, but well appreciated, moment of peace.