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Funeral Tips for Families

Planning a Memorial Service

Planning a funeral can involve many components, so it is important to be well informed

The passing of a loved one is a trying time for any family, but planning for a funeral can actually be an experience that uplifts even the most troubled of grieving hearts. Or it can lead to even more trauma.

Funerals organized with grace and peace can bring an almost miraculous amount of healing to a family beset with the loss of a loved one. Or a funeral can cause more stress than a grieving family might believe is possible.

Proper funeral planning is important for a family's mental health. Here are some important tips that can benefit all families trying to arrange the perfect memorial for their deceased loved one. Creating a memorial tribute for a loved one can help as well in the healing process of the soul.

Properly planning a funeral can help create a comforting and healing event.Remember that funerals are for the living, not the deceased. A loved one who has passed moves to a place of eternal peace and happiness. It's important for families to remember that he or she, by the very nature of Heaven itself, cannot be offended, or even slightly annoyed, at anything that happens at a funeral. Families do best at organizing a funeral when they remember, the event if for them. It's a means by which a family can gather to celebrate their best days – whether they be past, present or future. Families do best when they keep in mind that their loved one has moved on to eternal grace and, therefore, is watching from above, praying for nothing but smiles and good times among the crowd at their memorial service. Tears will be a part of any funeral, of course, but it is a mistake for families to make them the focus of their time together. Hugs and laughs should always be the most important rule of the day for planning any funeral.

The business of planning a funeral can lead to much stress and even wasted money. It's important for families planning a funeral to remember that, while their funeral director may be an exceedingly cordial and pleasant person, he or she is not necessarily a trusted family friend. As with any other business in a free-market economy, funeral homes operate on a profit motive. So, by the very nature of the free enterprise system, they cannot be counted upon to promote their most economical wares. Funeral planning experts, therefore, strongly recommend that families arrange for an impartial family friend to negotiate with the funeral home when planning a funeral. Anyone who has a bit of business sense will do. The point is to reduce the chance that emotions will lead to unwise decisions that will leave a family unnecessarily in debt (or possibly even in turmoil) after the funeral.

And a final, important tip for planning a funeral is something that is too often overlooked, simple as it is: plan ahead. It is never too early for a person to write his or her final wishes and make them known to those who will be tasked with carrying them out. It may be an uncomfortable, or even frightening, conversation to have with a loved one, but the discomfort will pay dividends in the form of peace and grace in the time of need.

The most important thing to remember in planning a funeral is to simply cherish the memory of your loved one. If that rule is followed fully, then any funeral is guaranteed to be a success, a source of healing and comfort for decades to come.

 
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